At the risk of starting off a firestorm, I'm going to raise the issue of what topics are suitable for this list. I'll begin with a disclaimer that I really don't have a dog in this hunt: I don't have an opinion and don't care what the parameters are for hidden-tech list topics. I would, however, like to know just what the parameters are: I discard the large majority of hidden-tech messages, and if the consensus is, "It's all good," then I'll probably opt out. The stated purpose of hidden-tech, from the website, is to "beat isolation, share business tips, find resources, create alliances, learn business skills and alert regional economic planners and technology service providers about our presence." That can be stretched to cover a lot of waterfront, including everything I've deleted in the past week. However, my sense when joining the list was that this was about businesses, and about networking around business needs, resources, ideas and challenges rather than personal ones. Certainly when you're running your own business, the lines blur, but...wow, this is going to sound really unsympathetic, and like I'm targeting people, but I'm not...I wasn't really looking to join a kaffeeklatsch, and I think we've wandered somewhat into that territory. I understand the urge and the tendency, when you're active in a forum (even just an active reader), to go to that forum with all your questions because the forum is where you do a lot of your interacting with people...but my personal sense is that the list's purpose becomes diluted when this sort of thing goes on. So let's hear it: is this just my perception, or have we gotten into a bit of a "dear chatters" style at times here? If so, is that what we really want? -- Mary Malmros malmros at verizon.net Some days you're the windshield, some days you're the bug