You can setup a new mail account with any mail provider and use Apple Mail on OS X for your security. If you setup their own accounts on OS X you can lock down the mail application to only allow mail to/ from specific people. If they want to e-mail one of their friends you'll need to authenticate the address with your OS X administrator password. OS X has everything you need. Apple Menu -> System Preferences --> Accounts ---> Create a new user ----> Select Parental Controls -----> Click on Mail and you can add the addresses your son/daughter is allowed to exchange e-mail with You can do the same with iChat and Safari Log in with their account and setup their mail account with your chosen mail provider (I hear crocker.com is pretty good ;). Apple mail will automatically delete mail that isn't from people on their list. I think it may send you a permission e-mail if you need to authorize inbound mail before they get it. My kids are still too young for e-mail so I haven't played with this but it is available. On May 16, 2006, at 2:13 PM, David Spound wrote: > ** Be a Good Dobee and help the group, you must be counted to > post . > ** Fill out the survey/skills inventory in the member's area. > > > I am seeking advice about *safe* email options for kids. My son > (age 13) and > daughter (10) have been asking for their own email addresses. While > I can > easily set them up under my own domain, I am concerned about spam and > safety. > > For those of you with kids, what have you done about email? > > Options I have considered include: > * Email accounts that I would occasionally monitor. Not because I > want to > read messages from their friends, but because I want to be aware of > what > they are receiving. My kids hate this idea and I'm not totally > comfortable > with it either. > > * Email programs that uses a “white list” — I would input addresses of > friends and family members and these would be the only people from > whom my > kids could receive messages. > > * A hosted service like Kid Safe Mail <http://www.kidsafemail.com> > > Any suggestions would be welcome. Software recommendations would > need to run > on Macintosh computers (OS X). > > I want to trust and respect my kids AND keep them safe. > > Thanks, > > David > > ++++++++++ > > David Spound, M.Ed. > > Valley Mindfulness > Meditation and Stress Reduction: Workshops, Classes and Coaching > > (413) 219-0654 > david at valleymindfulness.com > http://www.valleymindfulness.com > > Upcoming classes: > * A Taste of Mindfulness, Tuesday, May 23, 6:00 pm > * Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, June 20 – August 8 (Tuesday > evenings) > > > _______________________________________________ > Hidden-discuss mailing list - home page: http://www.hidden-tech.net > Hidden-discuss at lists.hidden-tech.net > > You are receiving this because you are on the Hidden-Tech > Discussion list. > If you would like to change your list preferences, Go to the Members > page on the Hidden Tech Web site. > http://www.hidden-tech.net/members -- Matthew S. Crocker Vice President Crocker Communications, Inc. Internet Division PO BOX 710 Greenfield, MA 01302-0710 http://www.crocker.com